BellaDaddy Blog

Or in this case, a time filler-upper.  The reason for delay.  A good excuse!  HA!

Sorry folks, looks like one more day.

One more day for the surprise being thrust upon the world!

CJ...CONGRATULATIONS once again!  I hope the wait will be worth it.

In the meantime everyone, enjoy a few photos,  and this short video of the MASSIVE DUST STORM  that moved through our city last night!





HUGZ!

So many of you submitted!  So many of you will lose! (HAHAHAHAHAHA)


What are yo going  to win?  Not a clue. But it will be good...I promise!!
But, c'mon, you were adventurous!  You submitted to our little tagline request, and now, you may be on your way to greatness.

WHY?

It's a secret.  I will tell everyone right after we close the poll.  And, the winner is announced.

So, thanks to ALL who contributed.

Now, everyone else.


Vote as often as you like!

and...

I want a new tagline.  ya know, the one up under the blog title:  "Ramblings of a Stay-At-Home-Daddy" is just...well, it's just...mindless...boring...old...!

Can you help?

C'mon everyone, you read my juvenile rants and raves...my bouncing erratic postings...you know me better than anyone.  Or, rather, you know our blog.

Once we determine the best tag line submitted, by your votes soon, we will announce an exciting change...finally!

Please, give it your best shot...tell me what ya think it should say...and win a cool prize.  We'll decide the best ones (5 or 10), and post them in a poll...then, you vote the best...and win.

Could be a signed book by one of the authors on our blog.

Might even be a t-shirt with a Bella saying on it.

Who knows, could even be a bumper sticker (lol)


Sarcastic is good.  Funny is hot!

A few years back, (wow - a few years!) I printed a post about water safety.  I written mostly out of sadness and frustrations, after watching the local news programs.  And, in the several years now, that I have been posting, this (unedited) version, from a few years back, is the ONLY time I have gotten a (semi) negative comment on a post.  It was from another Dad blogger who had  a family member who'd almost drowned, and was now a paraplegic.  I never meant to offend, or hurt anyone, ever.  Only to help by bringing attention to a huge problem in our area, and what should be huge, across the nation.

Here it is, edited and revisited for current times.

You can see, even Bella has stayed current  LOL!


WARNING: This is Fatherhood Friday & Good Friday but the following is NOT a feel good posting. BellaDaddy's sharing important info on water safety. Therefore, if you were looking for a feel good, make you wanna smile all day type of posting, head on over to DAD EXCHANGE...plenty to read and feel good about there.

Here?   Let's just say, someone needs to write this, and MORE need to read it.


Every year around this time, our local news is flooded with drownings and near drownings. ALL of which should NEVER have even come near to happening. Sadly, it does.

Every year, I sit and watch, tempted to change the channel or turn off the news altogether, simply because I find it extremely difficult to comprehend. HOW on earth do people lose track of their kids, even for that spilt second? No Clue. Every year, it is the same. Gates left open. No Gates at all. Parents napping while toddler crawls out doggie doors...etc...etc...etc...I will never be one to point fingers, however, I cannot advocate stupidity. We should ALWAYS be watching our kids...regardless of how tired, overworked, busy, etc...ALWAYS!, hoping, praying that this never happens to us, or anyone we know.

So, with that being said, please review the following tips. And remember,



Drowning Threat

In many states, drowning is a leading cause of accidental death for children one through four years age.

Children drown in pools, spas, buckets, toilets and bathtubs. A child can drown in as little as two inches of water.

A child can drown in less time than it takes to answer the telephone.


67% of all drowning deaths occur in their own backyard pool, spa or hot tub.


The majority of drowning incidents occur while the caretaker assumed the child was safely indoors.


25% of all children who have drowned or nearly drowned have had swimming lessons.


The risk of a drowning or near drowning is highest during the first six months a family has a pool.


For every drowning, an additional five near drowning cases are treated in the emergency room. Irreversible brain damage occurs in 3 to 5 minutes.


In California there are more than 330 people with irreversible brain damage because of near drowning incidents. Of this total more than 75 people are currently hospitalized at a cost of $120,000 per year for life.


Drowning is a silent killer. The victims don't cry for help. They are not getting enough air to breathe, so they don't have the extra air needed to call for help.


Drowning Prevention Tips


There is no substitute for adequate supervision. Children need to be watched. Never leave children unattended in or around pools or spas - not even for a second.   Although accidents do happen, these particular types can be/should be, minimized!


Access to the pool or spa area should be limited by locked doors, windows and self closing, self latching gates on fences surrounding the pool. Latches should be above the reach of children.


Do not allow children to play in pool areas. Keep toys out of the area.


Keep rescue equipment such as a long handled hook and a ring buoy with a rope hanging near the pool.


Many floatation toys are thought to be lifesavers but they are not! They are only toys and should be used only as toys and with adult supervision.


Install a phone by the pool so you can answer it without leaving children unattended.


Always keep chairs, tables, or toys away from the pool or spa fence to keep children from using them to climb over.


Do not allow anyone of any age to swim alone. Drowning happens to adults too. When you are entertaining a group of children or adults, have a designated pool watcher who is responsible for keeping track of everyone.


Examples of safe water behavior by adults are important for young children.


Always completely remove a pool or spa cover before use to avoid the possibility of anyone being trapped and drowning under the cover.


Have members of the family take a swim class and learn CPR.


Pools Inspection List


Is the fence childproof with bars not more than 4 inches apart? If it is a chain link fence, the diamond shaped opening should be no larger than 1 3/4 inches.


Are the gates self-closing and self-latching? The self latching mechanism should be out of the reach of children. Is the self-latching mechanism at least 54 inches, from the bottom of the gate? If less than 54 inches, the latching mechanism should be located on the pool side of the gate.

Are all the gates kept locked?

Are all exit doors and windows leading from the house to the pool kept locked and secured?

Are pool rules posted in a visible location?

Is rescue equipment kept near the pool? A ring buoy with an attached line and/or a long handled hook.

Is the pool cover completely removed or properly installed? Never use a pool with its pool cover partially in place.

Fathers Day is that day.  the one where you want everything to go smoothly.  It is MY day, after all.  But, in the grand scheme of things....it is like any other Sunday.  We have chores.  We have to eat.  We have to play.  We argue,.  Daddy yells...*SIGH*  Another day.

BUT.

THAT day.  To remember Fathers Day past.  Fathers Day!  Dream of the future!

About 3 years ago, the surrogacy program that we participated in, (ya know, to have our little Diva), called and asked if we would be interested in meeting a couple.  This couple was considering utilizing the program, and lived near us. 

We wished them well, and offered to stay in touch.  Hold their hands along the way if needed.






Yeah, they're gonna be just fine!

Head on over (click below) and give Aaron & Cid some love.  They've started their own blog and could use/would appreciate/love some advice and encouraging words!

ARIZONA TRIPLET TALES

Dad-Blogs is now:


Please check out the new site, the new blogs and all the other parents. We have some amazing new bloggers. Awesome camaraderie. Excellent Ideas, Suggestions and Parenting tips.  Loads of Humour, Opinions, & FUN!...pretty much something for everyone. 

Even Moms!

Every Friday, members will post a new blog entry, with a theme.  The next one is the BIG ONE: 

FATHERS DAY!

So don't miss out!


AND, you get to read all of our Bella Buddy Blogs.


HUGZ TO ALL!

YAY US!

Side Note:  I didn’t tell the entire story, but, when we walked into the Safeway/Starbucks, the kid behind the counter asked:  "Did you guys see the big wiener outside?" (I bit my lip)

So, really? LMAO!

Enjoy the vid, with the help of our friend Sarah, and of course. Grandpa!

Happy Spring!

Bella hasn't been feeling all to well, with a nasty cough - AGAIN! So, after school yesterday, I'd decided it would be fun to get her out of the house....and what better way than to 'feed da duckies!'

We have the most beautiful park, literally one block from our home. It has lakes, wildlife, skateboarders and even a small amusement park. Of course, there IS a golf course attached.

A train runs in the park, as do joggers, bikers and lots and lots of families. On any given day, you will see people flying kites, BBQing, having birthday parties, playing soccer, basketball and racing remote controlled cars.

It is great fun...beautiful and so serene.

Until we arrived HA!

Enjoy the video!