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Thursday, January 21, 2010

Haitian Donation!

This morning, I received this from my buddy Jason, over @ OUTNUMBERED:



"Hey guys, Just a pass through but I donated the other day to the Clinton-Bush Haiti fund and asked them if they had banners that bloggers can add to their sites. He sent me a few (attached) and the link below to link up to. I threw a banner up on Out-Numbered. If anyone is interested, in helping out, I figured I'd pass it along. No pressure obviously.


Peace Jay"






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Friday, January 15, 2010

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And who can forget...it is TGIF..sooo:




HAPPY FATHERHOOD FRIDAY!


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WOW, 2 years! Kinda crazy that we have had this little blog for so long...or rather, it doesn't feel even remotely close to 2 years.

I remember being so excited to start the blog, JANUARY 08 to keep in touch with family and friends. And now, now, it has grown to so much more. As of this posting, we have had over 6000 hits (since Feb 27, 2008 when I started tracking it)...and 64 "followers". Straight, Gay, Single Parents, Nuclear Families, Intended Parents, Adopted, Surrogacy Birth, Legal Guardianship...Christian, Jewish, Buddhist, Spiritual, Atheist...all races, creeds and colors. You name it, you are all here. So Cool. So many people that I have never met, probably never will. Yet, here they are...friends...interested in our life, our little one and the erratic ramblings of a sometimes crazed Daddy.

I have shared so much, yet, kept so much back....preferring to share the positive most times...and sometime the frustration...but hell...having a child, watching them grow, educating, playing, forming...it is all so new...yet now, so seemingly regimented...I feel like an old pro! All I ever wanted was to share our life in a blog...to document our littlest ones life a bit...so she can look back later in life, and kick me LOL...(Don't forget to backup your blogs!).

Most of my posts have been mundane, with a few exciting, emotional bits...here and there...but mainly, people have been so very positive and refreshing...and helpful ...in their comments. There have been a few, that I have not posted (you now who you are)...and a few followers I have blocked...actually, only 3...but I felt they had no reason to follow a blog like this...eh, my choice, right? (Honestly, they were in countries that are known for hacking, pic stealing, no real reason to follow a blog about a kid)...Takes all kinds, I suppose.


You have watched our little one grow...rocked out with our vids, left comments and suggestions for her growth...and been truly inspirational! I feel like I could reach out and hug each and every one of you.

You have empathised, sympathised, agreed and agreed to disagree...all the while enriching our blog with you presence, enlightening, silly and otherwise intelligent comments. Encouraged us to grow, to live and to enjoy life with a little one! Since the beginning!

Now, we have followers all over USA and the World: The Netherlands, Britain, Ireland, South Africa, Canada, Malaysia, and more...I have to thank DAD-BLOGS specifically. Without them, we would not have met super Dad's & Mom's like JOE SCHATZ, (whose book is featured on our blog - go buy it) and PETE JANELLE who co-founded Dad-Blogs.com. THE LEMONS who hold a very special place in our hearts, WEASELMOMMA who has such amazing insight, or SURPRISED MOM who dearly loves her family, TEACHER TOM who is the Peter Pan of Educators...DADDY FILES who tells it like it is, and encourages you to disagree (wink)...and PJ MULLEN, who drives a minivan, and is proud of it...to name only a few. Ah, so many more! We have exploded...

(OK, not as much as our friend Jason over at OUT-NUMBERED- but for little ole us...it works).

And now, two years later...a new blog design (take the poll to the right)...I could go on and on, about so many things, as many of you know, I like to talk....but, hopefully we can let the blog speak for itself...

Stay tuned for inevitable tweaks, skewers and do-overs, new posts, vids and pics, AND a little Bella Store!

More of the same, and loving it!

So, again...THANKS TO ALL OF YOU!






We are so grateful to have you along for the ride!
Friday, January 8, 2010

A Day At the Park

New Years Day, 2010...we had such a great time. We'd discovered, only days before, a little amusement park...for small kids...in the middle of the city. Having lived here for 10+ years, it was remarkable that we hadn't ever noticed...really...N-E-V-E-R noticed. RIGHT in the heart of the city... we thought it was a lake - HA)

OK OK, so, giving us the benefit of the doubt...perhaps we should only be admonished for not having known about it since the birth of our little one...almost 4 years LOL

Any hoots...we found it....so, we decided New Years day would be a cool way to start 2010 on a silly, goofy high note...with our little one who LOVES thrill rides...as evidenced in our trip to Philadelphia.

Enjoy the slide show...and apologies, no music...eh, just decided...no music...hope u r not bored LOL.







Make sure and watch the very short video, for giggles galore...Bella had a AMAZING TIME feeding the ducks! (Actually, we all did - as a family! Something no one can deny us...or take away - sorry, political soapbox appeared briefly and is now...gone.) We had the forethought to actually bring along crumbs to feed...go figure. We didn't know of this place for so long, yet, somehow we knew there were gonna be ducks to feed? LMAO!




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Friday, January 1, 2010

I Wonder...


OK OK, warning ahead of time...this post has NADA to do with the holidays (except for the pic above). Past or present...just so's ya know. I have been meaning to write this post for over a month now, but something else always seemed to get here first...so, here goes:


Recently, Bella was playing in the family room with the television on in the background. Neither one of us was paying any particular attention to what was on. Bella was happily strolling around with her buggy, or playing with her coloring crayons...talking up a blue streak. Yes, I may have mentioned before, she loves to talk...no idea where she may have gotten that from (GRIN). I was (as usual) cleaning something in the kitchen. Maybe dishes...who knows...when all of a sudden...Bella was eerily quiet.


I looked up and she was standing in front of the television, all toys dropped, arms crossed, staring intently at the screen.


What was she focused on?


A VICTORIA'S SECRET Wonder Bra commercial.


You know the one(s), the very revealing kind!


No clue what the commercial was saying, other than to show a large breasted woman, modeling a large pink bra. (Did I mention she had HUGE boobies?)


She stared for awhile, totally silent...before running out of the room, clutching her chest, SCREAMING:


"Daddy, I don't want Big Chee Chee's...EVER! I want small chee chee's! For EVER!"


Sigh! Who knows what was going through her head....(I was rolling for days after, though)!


Tee Hee!


Friday, December 18, 2009

Holiday Happenings


We are getting that "good ole fashioned feeling" around these parts. We have had cold weather, lots of neighbors have decorated, lights abounding, Santa's sleighing around...and boy, are we (finally) getting into the holiday spirit!


Spirit? Sounds like one of the ghosts in "A Christmas Carol". Whatever happened to just plain ole Merry Christmas to All? Eh, PC all around too, eh? We don't mind so much.


Bella is more than eager to wish anyone and everyone near her, a 'Happy Holiday', 'Merry Christmas' 'Happy Hanukkah'...yeah yeah, we trained her well :-) But, she loves to add: "And, Happy Easter"...!!


She has a few DVDs featuring 'Peter CoPPontail"...(her Bella Speak is contagious)...and thinks she wants Santa to bring her Easter Eggs under the tree...as well as the too many to mention, toys!


Sigh! She is to the point now that she knows all about Santa...and what he does for good little boys and girls. Heh Heh, I can threaten her with calling Santa if she doesn't lay down for a nap, eat her foods, or in general, be a good girl....I know, Threaten? Well, hell, it works Tee Hee!


Happy Holidays Everyone!
Friday, December 11, 2009

Recently

We had our first contest...and our blog friend PJ Mullen,, from Real Men Drive Minivans was the chosen winner...(and boy does he have the cutest little man...Bella's future ex-husband perhaps? LOL)...

You, our faithful readers elected PJ your "Fan Choice"
Below, feast your eyes on the prize!




Happy Fatherhood Friday! DAD-BLOGS.COM








Friday, December 4, 2009

100th Post!



Blah Blah Blah, so I lied...this is actually the 101st post to this blog. But, since I was drawing a huge blank last week, I put forth a post that was fast, easy and efficient....



AKA: I Was Lazy!


Anyhoo, here it is...the 100th (101st) post.


When I started this blog, it was because Grandma Tove (who has since passed) wanted constant updates. As she and Grandpa lived in Florida, emails, pictures and phone calls were getting so time consuming. And when you have a small one in the house, time is of the essence...so, I started the blog. Pretty much for friends and family to stay in touch and offer a glimpse into the sometimes chaotic home of two dads and a baby. (oh, and two dogs - certainly another post)!






I was so looking forward to sharing our stories, experiences and yes, even advice, to other dads, stay at home parents and well, pretty much anyone who wanted to listen and read. What I ended up with, is a chronicle of our little ones life...in pictures and stories. I download the blog to DVD regularly, so I can show her, and save for her, when she is old enough to read on her own...(boy is she gonna be embarrassed).












Certainly not what I was going for, or expected to occur...I mean, come one, there are PLENTY of cute blogs out there...highlighting cute kids...cute happenings, cute saying etc...etc...etc...and I did NOT want to be one of them....



SURPRISE! It happened anyway....



BUT, I am OK with it.












Personally, not really in the care mode of how people perceive the blog...or our lives...at least not anymore. There was a time where I was concerned. Concerned with how we would be accepted, or not, in the public arena. There were moments where I considered closing off the blog to the pubic...making it a password only follow-ship...but somehow, it didn't seem fair to those interested...and taking the time to leave great comments.


Eh, who cares. It is my blog. My life...my kid...and my thoughts...mine. I write as I speak...goofy, sometimes illiterate...but always honest. Direct. Just Me. I was never the best at writing...not in school...not for work...(although I was pretty successful in coming up with marketing materials and ad campagins...)...go figure!
We have made some incredible friends because of this blog...some who drop by once in awhile, others who will be lifelong...all in all, I am pretty happy with the outcome...and yeah yeah yeah, there will be some cool changes coming soon...in the new year...perhaps!


Anyway, I hope you do enjoy the blog...the pictures, the stories...it's all me. Take it or leave it....


and...HAPPY FATHERHOOD FRIDAY!
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